[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":70},["ShallowReactive",2],{"\u002F2012-05-29-%E8%B4%A3%E4%BB%BB":3},{"id":4,"title":5,"body":6,"date":48,"description":12,"extension":49,"meta":50,"navigation":53,"path":65,"seo":66,"stem":67,"tags":68,"__hash__":69},"blogs\u002F_legacy\u002F2012\u002F2012-05-29-%e8%b4%a3%e4%bb%bb.md","责任",{"type":7,"value":8,"toc":43},"minimark",[9,13,16,19,22,25,28,31,34,37,40],[10,11,12],"p",{},"一直不敢承担自己的人生，想把它交给别人。生命对于我而言成了不能承受之重。",[10,14,15],{},"哲学家西勒尔说过：“如果你不为自己而活，谁会为你而活呢？但如果你只为自己而活，那你又是什么？”",[10,17,18],{},"我很少选择为自己而活着，我一直在逃避着这样的选择。只是因为心中毫无意义的自卑感和某种如水仙般的自恋，就这样不知何时就已经和自己的生活分离开了。",[10,20,21],{},"在某种程度上这是一种移情，我只是把生活中的问题烦恼向以前交给父母一样推给了外界。这是自己的问题，早在学习移情这个概念的时候，我就被这样告知了。成长过程中难免会有移情的问题，只是作为卑劣者的我从那种痛苦中逃开了。我无法承认，生命中总是有必须自己承担的东西。这就是我无法做到的，最低的责任感。",[10,23,24],{},"不过人生的道理讲多少都是没有用的，每年励志类书籍的销量是如此之大，要是大家都光靠这样就站起来了，这个市场不是早就消失了吗？",[10,26,27],{},"人生难免遇到挫折，跌倒了的话，无论是在沙漠的荒原还是钢铁的都市，也只有站起来了。",[10,29,30],{},"站起来，然后向前走。",[10,32,33],{},"接下来该怎么走虽然是个问题，但是生活可不是躺着就能想象出来的呀。",[10,35,36],{},"虽然我也想买本人生漫游手册，可是哪里都没的卖啊……",[10,38,39],{},"因此也只有摸索着向前走了。",[10,41,42],{},"大概，不，一定大家都是这样子走过人生的道路的吧。",{"title":44,"searchDepth":45,"depth":46,"links":47},"",2,3,[],"2012-05-29","md",{"layout":51,"status":52,"published":53,"author":54,"author_login":55,"author_email":56,"author_url":57,"wordpress_id":58,"wordpress_url":59,"date_gmt":60,"excerpt":61},"post","publish",true,{"display_name":55,"login":55,"email":56,"url":57},"chaoshikari","chaoshikari@gmail.com","\u002F",407,"\u002F\u002F?p=407","2012-05-29 08:39:49 +0000",{"type":7,"value":62},[63],[10,64,12],{},"\u002F2012-05-29-责任",{"title":5,"description":12},"_legacy\u002F2012\u002F2012-05-29-%e8%b4%a3%e4%bb%bb",[],"NNURyBa_TSeB0uDBs6yhzDy3p6qWZUWkkhIndy040g4",1788763182328]